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Mar. 20th, 2004 10:54 pmJust saying hello to all. I had P of P today which was alright, but the team didn't get any prizes, and only one seventh grader got a medal. :( I got home, took a shower, called Sarah, and then slept for two hours. When I got up I got in a fight with Dad, it was pretty bad. But we made up a little while later, and we ordered a pizza. YUM!!! I've spent most of tonight cleaning the upstairs, and stuff. Hopefully tomorrow will be fun. I've already printed directions for the Con, and I tried to find out a little more information about it, but it was difficult to really find anything. Tonight I'm going to try to work on my homework, since I'm a loser and I slept all night. I hope some interesting people go to the Con... I'm still bewildered by this whole Ramon thing (some kid who wants to go out with me), and I really don't know how I feel about him since I only just met him. Damn fortune cookie (Received fortune cookie that said unexpected passionate (passionate???) love would soon appear in my life)...somehow I don't think Ramon is my passionate love, or mabye I hope he isn't. Friday night I spent with Amanda, and we talked for three or four hours, she wants me to call her on her cell. I'm kind of reluctant to call her, because she never calls me. I hate friends like that. It shows a total lack of interest on their part. (Ahem, here is my nod to Sarah. Jessica you are a complete and utter loser. You are no longer Sarah's friend, because in order to be friends with someone you have to call them, or spend time with them. However, you have abandoned your pregnant friend. Shame is thy name. Oh, and by the way, rather than naming her baby after you, she is naming it after me. :) Waves to Sarah...) Anyway, and while I have Amanda's number she does not have mine, nor did she ask for it...So I'm afraid that our friendship will be dependent on me again, and I'm already so busy, I don't have time to invest hours into trying to be her friend, when she does not respond. Saw Beth and her boyfriend again...The general consensus seems to be he is a loser...I agree. I think he is completely rude, and arrogant. Apparantly he doesn't like her spending time with anyone but him...Her mom dislikes him too, I am horrified to announce that for once I agree with Mrs. UltraConservative. Elaine is off in lala land oblivious (and happily so) that her boyfriend is cheating on her... I don't understand why all my friends seem so determined to be in bad relationships. I also don't understand why they all feel they need to be in a relationship. I swear that they go from one to the next, heck all their relationships are rebounds. Aren't you like suppossed to date the rebound guy for a few weeks, and then find someone good? I think they lost that memo. I hope Minh and Nick break up soon, just because I'm tired of their bitching. They get in like 5 fights a day, they are never happy unless Minh is shoving her tongue down his throat, or sitting on his lap. Now there is nothing wrong with a physical relationship, however Nick is determined to wait until he gets married to have sex, so Minh is out of luck in that department. I know it's easy to criticize other people's relationships, but every single person I have talked about above, has related my concerns back to me numerous times, and yet they continue to go along the same path. Heck, if you can't admit your boyfriend has cheated on you when you've seen him cheating then nobody is going to convince you otherwise. (For the record, if you ask your boyfriend if he's cheating on you and he says no, please don't tell me that you must have seen somebody who looked exactly like him, making out with one of your friends, alright.) As for my sister, well I'm tired of talking about Dave. I love listening to her, but right now I'm done dispensing advice after I write the following. I don't think Jessica's dependency on Dave is healthy, and I don't think his attitude towards her is fair or just. While Dave may be a good guy, even good people hurt others. In fact, they may hurt other people because they do not know what else to do in a situation, but that still does not excuse their behavior. I may go so far as to say, that Dave knows exactly what he is doing, and does in fact...enjoy it in a way. I think it is flattering for anybody, when they have the unconditional love of someone. I love my sister and I just don't like to see her hurt, and she has been upset about Dave for too long, when he knows he is hurting her because she has told him so. Whew, glad I got that off my chest. For the record, Jessica you are an adult and you can do whatever you want be it drinking or having sex, and I want you to feel you can come to me and tell me about everything you do. However, I also want you to keep your word. So while you may think it is stupid that people were upset you drank, the only reason I was upset was because you had said so many times you wouldn't drink. By your account of the incident, it sounded as if you were forced into drinking by the gentle persuasion of your friends. You are an intelligent person who can make her own decisions, and I trust your judgement in most matters so I believe you did what you wanted to do. But if that is the case, don't say others forced you, or even guided your decision, just take responsiblility for your own choices, and I will respect you far more. As of now, I believe you did what you wanted, it was your choice to drink, and you did so, good for you...I don't think you will become a drunk (although as Brenda said you take just one drink and people in our family are hooked, HOOKED I TELL YOU, HOOKED), and I know you believe in moderation...So, there I've said my piece. I hope I didn't upset you...well I'm done.
